Darling is sick again. This time round, accompany with cough.. Hope darling gets well soon!!!!!!!!! Im very depress to see darling sick. Everyone says breastfeeding is good, breastfeeding will pass immunity to our child. Im starting to think likewise to these. Mummy never breastfeed me at all. Yet mummy is able to pass all her good immunity to me and bless me with good health; through pregnancy tho.

Anyway, 'Piss Me Off Incident'
This week is school holidays. Its been great cuz everyone is at home to help out. Great thanks!! Anyway, i would like to relate one particular incident that happen on monday, 15/03/10. Our paternal small aunt called.

(phone rings)
phoebe: hello?
small aunt: ah bee ar?
phoebe: yes?
small aunt: is faye and elsie at home?
phoebe: faye in school. elsie at home. why?
(#1)small aunt: oh. i thought of bringing faye and elsie to eat at the soup restaurant. since faye not at home, she cant bring elsie over to my place to meet me.
phoebe: oh..
small aunt: why not you bring elsie over then?
phoebe: oh. cannot cuz i wanna help jeanie at home. in case when she's busy and baby fuss, i can help her.
(#2)small aunt: huh? got so exaggerating not? if baby fuss then let him fuss la. awhile only wad.
phoebe: oh. dun wan la.
small aunt: ok lo. bye.
*Hangs up.

Well.. This makes me fume!!
#1. I find that its VERY WEIRD that when you wanna bring my sis out, we MUST fetch them to her place. Even if faye is really at home, mummy will never allow faye to bring elsie and take bus out on their own. Reason: mummy feels they are not ready to travel on their own. Faye is severely short-sighted and Elsie is still young. Anyway, if you really wanna take them out, shouldn't you come and collect them?

Plus, if you really wanna bring someone out, wouldn't you call beforehand? Or isit someone put you aeroplane and so you wanna find substitute?

#2. Why are you commenting on whether i need help at home or not? If you are not aware on the situation at my place, please keep your comments to yourself. Do you know how much chore i need to take care of? We're not like you. Got your mum to help out. With only 2 person staying at your place. We got 8. Alright? We are brought up to help one another. Not selfishly only think of ourself. Btw, do you know the consequences of a fussing baby? Constant fussy will leads to colic. Dunno what's colic? Google it.

Today, another similar incident. *roll eyes

mummy and grandma on the phone and suddenly they mention bout me.
mummy: oh. i got to go. i gotta do housework; mop the floor.
grandma: huh? jeanie never mop meh?
mummy: oh. no la. she already help alot during weekdays. at her age, she's quite good already. everyday she'll do housework for maintainence and fix 3 meals for everyone. still gotta take care of baby at the same time.
grandma: . . .(quiet)

I seriously dunno what these people are thinking. Mummy will overhaul the house on weekends while i maintain it by simple housework during weekdays as most of the time im alone with darling at home. So mummy only leave simple chores for me. When she did overhaul on weekends, we will help out. Everyday, i cook, take care of baby, do chores. Its tiring. And they still can say why i never do this never do that?!?! Hey, try out what im going through before commenting! How dare you question on my hardwork?!

Talking about my relatives. I might as well share one more 'story'. The main lead is my uncle(Daddy's elder bro). Our family(ok. prolly not include daddy) simple dislike this man. WHY? BECAUSE HE KEEP BORROWING MONEY FROM MY DAD!!! FOR? TO GAMBLE!!! I SIMPLY LOOK DOWN ON SUCH PEOPLE. I WILL NEVER FORGET WHAT CHAOS HE CREATED TO US! PUI PUI PUI!

One week before my AD(Annual Dinner), he ask money from dad again. Mummy was so furious that she ran away from home. Why? Since young, dad has been helping him. How much money has he taken from us? I cant say daddy is very upright as he used to gamble as well, BUT AT LEAST HE WONT BORROW FROM **** ******! And, These years, daddy has turn over a new leaf. With mummy's help, he started his own business and work damn hard for it. Right now, this brother actually wanna borrow daddy's hardearn money to gamble and repay his own loan. And please lo, he NEVER RETURN. Oh, only once this year, he return abit cuz he strike lottery(he returned about 20k cuz previously daddy settle his debts for him). Back to the story, so mummy ran away from home for 3 days. She stayed in a hotel. Im fucking furious. In fact, all of us are furious!!! I've never expect to see such USELESS MAN in my family. I dun call him when i see him cuz i cant forget what chaos he created for us. Mummy threaten to divorce daddy if daddy lend him money again. I hope his son and daughter saw my post. Please keep an eye on your dad. I SIMPLY LOOK DOWN ON GAMBLERS! NOT ONLY MESSED UP THEIR OWN LIFE, BUT ALSO OTHERS. FUCK YOU! Dont you DARE to ask for our help AGAIN! I'll sure to messed up your family! What kind of fucking kinship is this?

Darling loves to talk to everyone but me. :(
Darling is such a handsome cutie.
*Mummy loves you!

I overspent this month. Lots of loots for darling! And I just deposit his $$ in his mighty savers account! Got a cute gift from OCBC. Darling is richer then me now..

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